Can you think of a time or experience with a man when you KNEW it was YOU who screwed up? Maybe you got a little freaked out or jealous over something small, and you lost control over your emotions and drove your man away.
Or perhaps you became paralyzed with fear that the guy in your life wouldn’t like you, get tired of you, or that he’ll leave you for someone else.
Have you ever met a great man and found yourself thinking about him all the time? You find yourself so afraid that you’ll lose him that you start emailing, calling, and trying to secretly know what he is doing at all times.
Or maybe you keep attracting the wrong men… men who want to be mothered, who want you to give up your friends and hobbies to be at his beck and call. Do you find yourself giving up your life just to make him happy, because you are afraid of the alternative?
Or perhaps you’ve gotten so sad about the lack of love in your life that you’ve begun to feel that you don’t deserve love from an exceptional man who truly cares about you.
These situations are incredibly painful, not just because it often causes the man you like to run away… but because you know, deep down, that it was YOU who messed up!
It wasn’t him. Or the the situation. Or the full moon. It was your feelings and actions that drove him away.
You could feel that you were out of control of yourself and the situation, and you could feel your emotions and fear were taking over… but you just couldn’t get CONTROL of yourself.
You knew it was bad, and you knew it was driving him away, but couldn’t help it.